Right-Sizing

The goal isn't to zip it. It's to share fellowship.

Right-Sizing
With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be.
— James 3:9-10

I really want this to be a self-control issue. It's not. It's a failure to see myself and others as God sees us. A proper view of others' God-likeness will right-size them greater in my eyes. My God-likeness should right-size me in the opposite direction.